oedipus and electra complex

o well... i dunno why im writing or why i suddenly write a blog about this...

o well.. to go further about this topic.. (panindigan ko na nga) some of us have an oedipus and electra complex....

not really to the extent that you gonna kill you father/mother because you love your mother/father that much...

in modern days, i can say the people have an oedipus/electra complex cause they admire their mother/father so much and somehow they are looking for someone who can fit to their parent's personality...

when i was young.... i also admire my father for his determination and how he handle things... i even want to marry someone like him... but as i go on to this life... i realize that i can never find someone like him cause he is unique and one of a kind... i can never find exactly like him... so i quit...

now i look up not only to my father but also to my mother as a model... as an idol... i want to grow up like my mama and my papa...

so to those who are looking for a partner who like their partner as their mother or father well... goodluck to you...

i wish in near future you wouldn't have a problem with your partner... cause if you want someone to be someone... well, that will be rude... cause your missing the capability of that person, his/her unique personality.

so you better stop it... it isnt nice.... just look up to you parents as a model...

love the person who he/she is not because you see someone to her/him... isnt that sweet? ^_^

i cant find a song... instead ill put the lyrics here... hoping this will help to understand what im trying to say...


LOVE ME FOR WHAT I AM
BY: CARPENTERS


We fell in love

On the first night that we met

Together

We've been happy

I have very few regrets

The ordinary problems

Have not been hard to face

But lately little changes

Have been slowly taking place

You're always finding something

Is wrong in what I do

But you can't rearrange my life

Because it pleases you



(*) You've got lo love me

For what I am

For simply being me

Don't love me

For what you intend

Or hope that I will be

And if you're only using me

To feed your fantasy

You're really not in love

So let me go

I must be free



If what you want

Isn't natural for me

I won't pretend to keep you

What I am I have to be

The picture of perfection

Is only on your mind

For all your expectations

Love can never be designed

We either take each other

For everything we are

Or leave the life

We've made behind

And make another start



Repeat (*)



And if you're only using me

To feed your fantasy

You're really not in love

So let me go

I must be free



You're really not in love

So let me go

I must be free